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Eagle Scouts Excel in Leadership Roles

 

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These six became Eagle Scouts in Troop 251 in 2016. The troop is sponsored by the Vicksburg United Methodist Church. Their scoutmaster is Kevin Borden. They are holding their Eagle Scout commendations. Front row, left to right: Tanner White and Brady Copeland. Second row, left to right: Josh White (holding his resolution from the Governor) and Cole VanderMeulen. Back row, left to right: Caleb Conklin and Charles Brunett.

By Sue Moore

Six young men attaining Eagle Scout rank in one year from Vicksburg’s Troop 251 is an amazing feat, according to Kevin Borden, Scoutmaster for the last four years. Out of a troop of 50 members, that’s a pretty great number to hit, with several more Scouts in the pipeline for 2017, he said.

In the U.S., more than 100 million boys have participated in scouting since its founding; less than 3 percent have made it to the exalted rank of Eagle Scout according to the records, Borden said. “The requirements have gotten more stringent over the years to earn the necessary 21 merit badges needed to become an Eagle Scout. They also need to plan and complete a big service project that shows their leadership capabilities before they can take part in the Court of Honor ceremony.”

Those receiving their Eagle Scout rank in 2016 include Brady Copeland, Charles Brunett, Josh White, Cole VanderMeulen, Tanner White and Caleb Conklin. All are attending Vicksburg High School except for Copeland, who graduated in 2016 from Vicksburg.

Borden started with many of these boys in Cub Scouts and watched them grow into mature leaders, he said. They have engaged in community service with idea of giving back firmly embedded in their activities, he enthused. “Their leadership abilities have made them better individuals. They often go into Scouting with no idea or vision of where life will take them. For example, the boys run the troop, taking guidance from the leaders, which can be very empowering.”

Brady Copeland, oldest of the six, just made it under the wire with his project at Hogsett Lake to clean up metal guard rails, tangled with an invasive plant species, before he turned 18 last year.

All candidates for Eagle rank must complete their merit badges and leadership project by the magic date of their 18th birthday. Brady is working at Houghton Manufacturing until he leaves for Air Force basic training in Texas on April 4. Because of his Eagle Scout status, he can enter the Air Force with an Airman rank rather than Airman Basic, the entry level for most recruits.

Josh White built four benches that he had installed at Tobey Elementary School this fall along with clearing the site for the benches and enhancing Captain Drew Russell’s memorial garden on the grounds of Tobey. The lumber for his project was donated by Big C Lumber in Schoolcraft. He is a senior, playing alto saxophone in the marching band and tenor sax in the jazz band. He has enlisted in the Marines and will report to basic training at Parris Island on July 10th.

Cole VanderMeulen built a small retaining wall and benches at the disc golf course for his project. He is a senior and totally involved in the VHS music program, playing trumpet. He has offered his services to play Taps for the VFW in Portage when they need him for ceremonies. He plays in the jazz band and pep band. He has attended Blue Lake music camp for four years. He auditioned for the Western Michigan University trumpet studio and is thinking about majoring in music there.

Charles Brunett has already decided to enlist in the Marines upon graduation this year. “I’ve wanted to be a soldier all my life. Those are real guys,” he says. His project was to beautify the Fulton cemetery in time for the Memorial Day parade as that is his home town. He lives on the family farm and has relatives buried in the cemetery. The work involved cleaning up the grounds and a trash area that was overflowing with debris and repainting the perimeter fence. His Scout helpers in the project repainted the flag pole.

Tanner White is a junior at VHS, playing football and travel baseball. He is junior class president and president of the National Honor Society while carrying a 4.11 grade point average. He has joined the Bulldog Clay Target Team that was recently organized as a club sport by some of the Scout leaders. His project involved building benches, backstops for kickball and soccer goals at Sunset Elementary school, carried out at the age of 15. He hopes to become a sports analyst or broadcaster and is beginning the hunt for the right college to pursue this opportunity.

Caleb Conklin, a junior at VHS has been active in many sports, including soccer, football, basketball, baseball and travel baseball. He pitches and plays outfield. He is a member of the National Honor Society. His project was to build a recreational site for his church’s playground in Centreville. It required 200+ man hours to organize, build and raise the money. He sought donations from friends, family, and church members and as well as receiving donations from multiple home improvement stores.

“There have been lots of good times with this group of boys,” Borden says. “We have taken them camping in Canada, Ohio and West Virginia, and right here in Vicksburg at the scout cabin on Barton Lake. It’s been a terrific learning experience.”

 

Cake Bake is a Fundraiser for the Cub Scouts

By Sue Moore

Vicksburg’s Pack 251 cub scouts learn to work in the kitchen each year so they can proudly present their specialty cakes to be sold at their annual Cake Bake auction. This year it will be held on Friday, March 24, at the Scotts Community Center, beginning at 6:30 p.m. and lasting about an hour and a half. The public is invited to what is being billed as an “art show with exhibits you can eat.”

Jessica Hawkins, one of the committee members for the Cub pack, tells about her son Tyler’s first cake bake experience. “Tyler mixed the cake pretty much by himself, adding all the ingredients and claiming he followed the instructions. When we took the cake out of the oven we found out differently.  It was completely flat and very hard!  We had to make a store run for a cake mix and through making the second one we discovered that he used about a cup too much of oil.” This experience helped Tyler win last year. He was voted the best cake for his lemon jelly bean-filled cake.

The boys are allowed to have any family member helping them to make and decorate the cake. They willingly donate it to the sale and usually come home with their own cake or another one their parent bid on. Cub Scouts start at the age of six and go to 10 so every year they can progress from stirring, to cracking eggs, to putting the frosting on and getting handy with decorating, Hawkins said. This in turn helps to get the best price for each cake auctioned off. Last year the 33 donated cakes sold at an average of $40 each.

Funds from the event help to defray expenses to keep the organization going. They also provide scholarships for some boys who need financial help in order to become a member. Besides learning how to work in the kitchen, the scouts get a lesson in selling tickets to family and friends. The moms who are helping with organizing the cake bake include Valerie Tassell, Christy Trepanier, Janelle Weesner, Myriah Bombich and Jessica Hawkins.

A Christmas Miracle Part 2

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Editor’s note: Last month, Linda Lane described learning that her husband, driving home alone from Kentucky, experienced an “aorta dissection”, a tear in the major artery. He was airlifted from Elizabethtown to Louisville, and underwent repair surgery. An early report of successful surgery changed as Lane was told that a new tear had been discovered.

Now I was terrified. Phone calls to my friends were met with hesitations, deep breaths. They told me this news wasn’t great, but that the surgeon was working like crazy and was going to do everything possible he could to save him. I kept feeling like I was going to throw up. I paced around a path in the open waiting area, texting for something to do, and going back to stand before the door leading to the operating room. I stared at the door and willed it to open with a nurse coming out to give me good news. I was mentally sending my husband the strength to come through this, telling him not to give up. To come through this. That I needed him.
Hours later, still no news. My nursing friends asked questions that I didn’t know the answers to: How many liters of blood has he lost? They used eight liters on him (there are only five liters in most people). How much “product” have they given him (meaning blood products such as red blood cells, blood platelets, blood plasma and other blood clotting agents)? He had had over 20 units. Not good. Have they taken him “off pump” (meaning the heart by-pass pump)? At 3:30 a.m. I called and asked the circulating nurse to come out for me and had her talk to one of my nursing friends. On speaker phone, my dear friend, a heart-team RN, asked all the questions she’d been asking me. Both nurses hesitated frequently, eyes darting as the answers weren’t indicative of positive things happening in the operating room. I could hear the bad news and concern in my friend’s quivering voice when she spoke to me privately.

Grueling hours passed. A different nurse came out to inform us that they had repaired all the tears, and redone the previous repairs. They had tried to take him “off pump” again but it wasn’t working and they had to put him back on. They’d give it more time and try again. I paced for two more hours with no news, still scared to death.

Finally, at 6 a.m. the surgeon came out, clearly exhausted. He had performed two previous heart surgeries during the day and had just finished the second one when my husband arrived. He thought he was going to operate for 6-10 hours, but it was 12 hours before he was done.

“Let’s go in this room so we can have a little privacy,” the surgeon said. That cannot be good, I thought. He could barely keep his eyes open as he heaved into a chair, pausing to think about where to start with me. He draws a picture that takes forever to draw and I cannot breathe. He goes through a lengthy description of what happened with the aorta dissection, what pieces he repaired, undid, fixed and repaired again. I still cannot breathe. I’m waiting for him to tell me, “This is where it all went wrong.” “Here’s the spot we couldn’t fix.” “We did our best, but he’s gone.”

It takes him forever to tell me, “Well, we finally got him off the heart by-pass pump and he’s been taken to recovery. He’s still a really, really sick man, but he’s made it through the surgery. There can be lots of complications yet, but we’ll see how he does in the next few days.”

I finally breathe. I think, “He could have started with that!!!”

I can’t get in to see him for a few hours. They needed time to get him settled (“cleaned up after surgery”) in the Intensive Care Unit (ICU). I wait two more hours, unable to sleep. I finally buzz the intercom and ask to see my husband. “I’m sorry. It’s 10 more minutes before visiting time. Try back then.” I was furious. I’d been ill with worry and waited for 14 hours. I needed to lay eyes on him. My friend tells me, “You can wait 10 more minutes. You’ve waited this long! They’ve got to get him cleaned up for you. When you go in to see him, he’s going to look really, really rough. There’s going to be tubes coming out from all over on him. I don’t want you to be frightened when you see him, but he’s gonna look pretty bad.” I wait the 10 minutes and they finally buzz me back.

His face is the color of the light gray-green wall. His tongue is half sticking out with the endotracheal tube down his throat, and he truly looks near death. He has tubes going out his neck, another near his clavicle, two chest tube drains below his ribs, and an arterial IV in his hand. With all the wires and tubes and electronics blinking, he looks sort of like a robot. The surgeon had sawed his sternum (chest bone) open to perform this surgery, so there is a 14-inch incision from his throat to above his belly button. His arms had been strapped down straight out to the sides as if he were crucified for the surgery. His arms, hands, shoulders, chest, and legs bear the bruises of the brutal nature of the 12-hour surgery.

But his heart is beating. I see it register on the monitor with flashing red lights.

My prayers came true. He survived the surgery. Christmas in Louisville, Ky. was going to be OK. I had my Christmas miracle.

Authors of the Memoir Slow Escape, a Story of Abuse and Eventual Freedom, to Visit Vicksburg District Library

By Eric Hansen, Vicksburg District Library Reference Librarian

Slow Escape is the true story of Lorie Williams, who was abused by her father for 27 years. With help from a friendly teacher, Laurel Macon, Lorie eventually escaped from this brutal situation and began to develop a more stable life.

Slow Escape: 27 Years to Freedom, a memoir told by Lorie to Laurel Macon, is a release from Oaker Press, and on March 30, from 6-8 p.m. Lorie Williams and Laurel Macon will visit the Vicksburg District Library to read excerpts and conduct a question and answer session. This book discussion is free and open to the public. Signed copies will be available for sale.

In a sense, the memoir is a Michigan true-crime story, detailing the physical, sexual, and emotional abuse that Lorie endured. It details the hardships that her mother and siblings suffered under Lorie’s father and choices that Lorie made that helped her endure. In one case, when she was a girl, she remembered that she clutched a tiny necklace her father had given her and decided,“Sometimes, when angry words and the sound of beatings filled the house … I would pretend then that the tiny necklace was like an anchor … It would give me a little bit of hope that things might be better someday. That is all I want—for things to get better.”

This memoir is a detailed discussion of how a child can strive to mediate between different adults and children with different hopes and different agendas. Almost every figure in Lorie’s life is struggling with terrible anger and frustration. Throughout the memoir, Lorie’s father teaches his children to steal as a daily chore – just a part of surviving in the world – and he describes perfect strangers in language otherwise reserved for a man’s worst enemies. Lorie struggles to create peace and retain her faith in that environment, even while she was a child and could not understand the cruelty she experienced.

In 1974, Laurel Macon was Lorie’s second-grade school teacher. When Macon learned that some schoolboys had attacked Lorie, she spoke with the girl, and consequently learned that the child had been assaulted by her half-brother. That conversation led to a meeting with police and social workers that caused a brief pause in the abuse Lorie suffered. But afterward the abuse continued, and throughout the memoir a reader might question how a system intended to protect children can fail so spectacularly.

Two decades later, Laurel Macon and Lorie re-connected when Macon saw Lorie on the television news. Because Macon desired to help her former student, and because she felt the system had failed Lorie, Macon felt it was important to help tell the story of the years Lorie spent under her father’s control.

Macon has said, “I see this book as keeping a promise. I believe that when a child asks for help, we as a society should do all we can to make things right.”

By the end of her captivity Lorie had been pregnant 15 times. She had been forced to live in a patched tent and a ramshackle old school bus. For a time, her only means of income was deceiving Amish farmers into buying food that she and her father had scrounged from dumpsters.

With Macon’s assistance, and because of her perseverance and faith, Williams has raised six children. She gained a home through the Habitat for Humanity program, and started her own business.

A “Life is Good” Quilt in Memory of Sue Dornbos

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Quilters from left to right: Patty Keller, Allyne Maltby, Regina Richardson, Mary Ann Kudary, Jane Peterson. Additional members of the Hearthside Quilters who also worked on the quilt but are not pictured: Marci Bailey, Diana Girolami, Brenda Bowers, and Emmy Shearer. Photo by Linda Lane.

By Linda Lane

Fifty-six different “Life is Good” T-shirts were lovingly cut and pieced into a quilt in memory of Sue Dornbos. One of Sue’s daughters, Sarah Dornbos, who lives in California, made a special request of the Vicksburg Hearthside Quilters to make the quilt from T-shirts that Sue had purchased over the years for herself and her three girls.

Jane Peterson and Regina Richardson spearheaded the project and enlisted the help of the Vicksburg Hearthside Quilters to produce the beautiful T-shirt quilt. Vicksburg Hearthside Quilters, the group of nine women who made the quilt, has been around for over 35 years. Sue Dornbos was a founding member. While the group normally meets monthly, they started the quilt in September and had additional meetings to work on the quilt.

The queen-size quilt brings out all the colors of the shirts, most of them in pastel, with 8-inch-square blocks. The shirts were worn by Sue or given to her three girls as gifts from her. Sue and Sarah had done volunteer work in Haiti together, and one of the T-shirts has Haiti referenced on it. Regina intends to send a picture of the quilt to the company who manufactures the “Life is Good” t-shirts.

“Sue was a very positive person and I think that’s what attracted her to the “Life is Good” T-shirts. Sarah got them all together and asked us to cut them all up into the quilt. All those shirts are $20-30 each, so we cut up a lot of money!” Regina Richardson said.

Sue Dornbos and Jane Peterson knew each other from school where they both grew up in the Ludington area. They both had three daughters and happenstance drew them both to the Vicksburg area to raise their families.

“Sue was such a dear friend to all of us. It was very therapeutic for our group to make the quilt for Sarah. We were all still grieving the loss of Sue and it was part of the recovery process. Really, it was an honor to make it in memory of Sue,” Jane Peterson said. “The warmth and comfort the quilt brings to Sarah will mirror all the warmth and comfort Sue brought to all who knew her.”

The group found a complement for the quilt that they have also sent to Sarah. It’s a book called “Life is Good: Simple Words from Jake and Rocket.” All the quilters signed the book for Sarah.

“Life is Good” T-shirts contain meaningful quotes, many with their main theme, “Life is good. Do what you like. Like what you do. Simple as that.” Others include “Simplify” “Happy Hour” (roasting marshmallows) “Follow your heart” “Enjoy the present” “Be what you want” and “Dream big.”

Sarah described receiving the quilt:
“Today I received the most amazing gift from the Hearthside Quilters in Vicksburg. They were willing to finish a “Life is Good” T-shirt quilt that my mom and I had talked about making, but were unable to get to before she got sick. I will think of these friends of hers with gratitude every time I curl up in it. Not only does it contain T-shirts that my mom and I both wore in photographs together, but it is stitched through with love by friends who had quilted with her for decades…a tangible reminder that all was not lost when I lost my mom. It was a wonderful Presidents Day surprise gift.”
Perfect sentiments for a woman like Sue Dornbos, who was a positive inspiration to all who knew her.

Vicksburg Hearthside Quilters

Currently comprised of nine women from the Vicksburg area, this generous group of quilters has made many cancer quilts for different people battling cancer. They like working on group projects and have made quilts for the community’s benefit. For example, they produced a quilt which was raffled off at the Vicksburg Farmers’ Market. They also made quilts for the community quilt center and the hospitality house. It’s a loose, social group of friends and they don’t really have membership dues. They usually meet monthly at the home of one of their members.

Sue Dornbos was a founding member of the group. Another member from the Vicksburg Hearthside Quilters, Diane Dean, passed away from cancer. The Schoolcraft Library had a show of her quilts recently. Her husband James had a rock from their property carved into a headstone, and engraved it with a quilt block.

The quilters won’t get together again until April because many of the group are out town in warmer climes.

Hoyle Submits Resignation Letter to the DDA

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John DeBault holds the paperwork for Vicksburg business owners to use in their application for a façade grant or loan for their building. Standing in back are DDA members Julie Merrill, Fawn Callen, Mary Ruple. The applications are available at the village office on Kalamazoo Avenue.

By Sue Moore

Kathleen Hoyle resigned as the Downtown Development Authority’s director at their meeting in February. She cited the need to move on with other projects. “I like to leave things better than when I came,” she said.

“I have really appreciated being part of Vicksburg and working with the community over the last few years to assist in moving the village forward to become the fastest-growing municipality in the state,” she said. “The residents have expressed their vision of Vicksburg’s future, planning was completed and implementation has begun, so now it’s time for me to move on to other projects. It has been an honor to work with the Vicksburg community and I know the future is in good hands.”

Board President John DeBault accepted the resignation. He told the board it might want to confer with all the entities the DDA has worked with. “Maybe we moved too fast, doing three projects last year. Maybe two is enough in 2017.”

Rudy Callen, president of the Vicksburg Foundation, told the board not to forget what the DDA was before Hoyle was hired. “There was little or no money, a skeleton crew and no activity. Great things have happened since then. Now is a chance to step back and get in sync with the village. There is so much potential and so many good people here.”

To that end, the board is getting ready to restart its “Façade Loan” program on April 1. A committee was appointed to handle details of the offer to Vicksburg business owners. Members will report back at the regular March meeting. There is also a revolving loan fund available for building owners to improve their properties. Applications will be taken from March 10 to April 28. Those qualifying will have money released by May 10, Hoyle reported.

A special meeting of the DDA trustees was scheduled to review priorities and begin to chart the authority’s next course.